逼出来的坚强

哭的时候没人哄， 我学会坚强

怕的时候没人陪， 我学会勇敢

烦的时候没人问， 我学会承受

累的时候没人依靠， 我学会自立

就这样 我找到了自己

原来我很优秀 很可贵的

世界上， 我只有一个，只有我一个

渐渐的 我成熟了

知道了 人，是被逼出来的

明白了 有压力，才有动力

因为没有更大的不如意

所以现在的不如意也是幸福的

IF

If I can Eat and Sleep and Forget

lose

The moment you lose your temper

You lose your respect

this game

In this game

I only have 1 life

5 levels of sorrow

1. Denial

2. Anger

3. Bargaining

4. Depression

5. Acceptance

jealous

When people get jealous

They become very dangerous

I believe

I believe it must be a very difficult thing to hate someone

I believe there must be a lot of pains that make us hate someone

when someone

When someone pissed you off... he really did, and you get angry... you really did... and you feel like rip him apart, but when you saw his stupid face... You can hardly control yourself from laughing.... You just feel want to bang your head to the wall !!!

Big Dream

When we were young, we have lots of BIG dreams.

As we grown up, we realized that it's hard to accomplish those dreams,

So we tend to be more realistic by start dragging down our dream, turn it to a smaller simpler and more affordable because the way will be though for us to achieve those BIG dreams. Why don't we RAISE UP our QUALITY so we deserved those BIG dreams? Don't stop trying. Don't stop believing.

rule

Don't just follow the rule

Be the one who set the rule

mistake

There are certain things in life when you know its a mistake but you don't really know it's a mistake because the only way to really know the mistake is to make the mistake and look back and say " Yes, that was a mistake" So the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake because then you go your whole life not really knowing if something is mistake or not

How Hard

It is not how hard you being hit

It is how hard you can be hit

inhale, exhale

Inhale Exhale No big Deal

attracted

Always attracted to assholes

Guys I thought I could fixed

own way

no thought no reflection no analysis no cultivation no intention

let it settle it self ... in his own way

escape

I wonder

No matter how far you travel

or how much you run from it

Can you ever really escape your past?

far more

Research shown that "most people will do far more to avoid pain than to experience pleasure"

That is why advertisers found it's more effective to use statement like "Aren't you hungry now?"

"Do you suffer from headache?""Can't sleep at night?"

No wonder business study covered psychology too.

By knowing certain fact that often overlooked by people, you can turn everything to $$$

Frustrated

Frustrated! All I need now is REINFORCEMENT, and I don't care whether it is positive or negative

special needs

People need to understand that children with special needs are not sick.

They are not searching for cure, just acceptance.

watch

Watch you thoughts, they become your words,

Watch your words, they become your actions,

Watch your actions, they become habits,

Watch your habits, they become character,

Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.

SaVe ThE WorLd

When we were younger,

we think that we can save the world.

When you grew older,

you realized that even the whole world can't save you.

memories

I don't afraid of the memories

I just afraid I can't forget

gave up

We gave up on our ego

gave up on our principle

gave up on our stubbornness

Simply because we can't gave up someone

ARGUE

If you argue correctly, you're never wrong.

That is the beauty of argument.

When I was A kID

When I was a kid, I used to pray every night to give me an ability to do a good home work. Then I realized that the Lord, in His wisdom, didn't work that way. So I just let people did it for me and asked Him to forgive me

i don't afraid

I don't afraid of fierce people. nothing can't be negotiated

I do afraid of uncivilized people, nothing you can negotiate with them

temper issue

Yes, under certain circumstances I'll have temper complication. But technically, I am still a good girl. Peace ^_^

笑着哭

失落之处 依然会 笑着哭

country should progress

Although I am not the biggest fan of Singapore, somehow I can't deny its attractiveness. It is one of the counties where it's possible for you to achieve whatever you want in life. You do good, you survive. You do bad, you vanish. And because of that, everybody is trying real hard to get what they want. That is how a country should progress.

有些人

有些人 说不起哪里好

但就是 谁都替代不了

Don't Think

On presentation, my friend can finally calm her nerves down and start to present. She said "I think..." but the lecturer cut her words impatiently: "Don't think. Just say"

The rest of presentations, none of us dare to mention "I think". The other time, that lecturer tells us, "I don't want you all to blindly believe on the theories. Tell me what you think. It shows me that you really understand." Our conclusion is she was having PERIOD at that time!

branding

Received clothes to be donated to orphanage. Dis is the 3rd time people find me when they have things to donate. Recently studied about "branding". Maybe it applies on people too. Once you join a charity club, no matter how long you have been stepped down from BOD, the label follows you.

simple

Sometimes, happiness is very simple. Finished your coffee then rush for your morning class. Then discover the light smell of coffee once you enter the room when you coming back home is a happiness too.

有些人

有些人 为了自由 放弃信念 放弃尊严 放弃亲情 放弃家庭
却忘了 人 应该为了自由而自由

food chain

Sometimes I wonder
If life is a food chain
Where am I now?

life is bitch

Life is a bitch!
So I'm gonna how it I will not survive only!
I will shine!

You Can Fail

My uncle told me: "You can fail your test. You can fail your subject. But don't you ever skip classes. De life experience dat ur lecturer share in class is priceless. Dat's what u are actually paying for. Dat's why people insist to go to college no matter how hard it is"

He isn't work in education. He build and sell property, and yet he realized de thing dat not even cross to my head. How much have I missed? I won't skip class anymore. Too bad, its already study week

26 July 2010

freedom

Freedom is not coincidence

balance

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving

- Albert Einstein

arrogant

We tend to be arrogant because we throught we knew alot after we learnt something in the class room. In fact, we are not. Don't ever look down the older who don't have a degree... because they have learnt things that only life can teach.

Change De World

When you are not satisfy with something around you, u have 2 choices;

1. Change that thing
2. Change yourself and live with it

final decision

Final decision is bullshit
Decisopm made by people
People isn't static
Therefore decision isn't static
U manage to change dat person's perception, you manage to change the "final decision"

over confident

Sometimes, you hate yourself for doubting yourself
Sometimes, you hate yourself for your over confidence

Giver Taker

He said, "There are 2 people in this world. Giver and Taker. U wanna work reak hard to make sure dat you are giver, and you wanna spend most of the time with the giver and u wanna becareful too, bcs there are people who pretend to be giver, but deep down inside, they are taker. You know out there, it's isn't easy to see de difference"

perfection

You will find the excitement and freedom of your single life perfect... until you fall sick

PERSISTENCE

Persistence is not doing the same action over and over again and getting de same failure as the result. That is called insanity. Persistance is being able to stick to doing something until it is done right and profitably. Persistance pays

- Kevin Hogan

just listen

Don't solve my problem. Just listen to me.

WHEN

When dad call and scold, he will says "Why you always... just like your mother"
When mom call and scold. she will says"Why you always... just like your father"
Hallo... Who do you expect me to look like??? =.=''

@LET HIM GO@

Someone once said, "If you love someone so badly, set him free. If he comes back to you, It will be yours forever"

It takes time

It takes time to persuate men to do even what is for their own good
- Thomas Jefferson-

Human Application

"NICE TO SEE, NICE TO HOLD, ONCE BROKEN, CONSIDERED SOLD"
How nice if it could be applied on people too

Over Qualified

Interviewer: Based on your previous achievement, you are over qualified. You are not supposed to be here.
Interviewee: I know, exploit me

- Indecent Proposal

Asset Liability

Be people's asset, not liability.
Make people your asset, not liabilities.

火

如果火都要为了照亮别人而去燃烧自己 那我做水好了

joke

1st time you hear a joke, it sounds funny.
Few times hearing it, it might sounds lame.

1st time you read a story, it seems touching.
Few times reading it, it doesn't make any sense.

Appreciate bad things when they happen.
If only good things keep happening to you,
you don't know how to cherish them when they around.

believe

The longer you learn marketing subjects, the more example of "successful business strategies" you being exposed, which are you actually inspired you. When it comes to business ethic part, you being told that it's unethical to do things that you LEARNT in the past with the exactly same set of examples. At the end, you don't know what to believe anymore. At the end, you don't know what is right and what is wrong anymore. This is so interesting.

Won , Loss

I've won
I've lost
But I'm fine ^_^

Success Stories

I love success stories.
Whenever I hear about someone who went from zero to one million it makes me feel good inside. I know that the American Dream is still alive!

贵族

爸爸说：我要你做的， 是一个贵族， 而不是爆发户。
所以无论你多么富有， 无论你在什么地方，都要谦虚，礼貌，不卑不亢，虚心学习自己不会的，不懂的。只有这样，你才会不断进步，爬上巅峰。

一样

一样的眼睛有不一样的看法

一样的耳朵有不一样的停发

一样的嘴巴有不一样的说法

一样的心 有不一样的想法

是不是因为这样

一样的人生才有不一样的喜乐与哀愁

people thought

People thought I never feel stress... well I do... and it almost takes my breath away.
It just that I throw them behind first, and set a particular session for myself to completely feel the all the stress, sadness, depress, frustration, or whatever it might called... so I can enjoy the rest of my time doing other stuff without any disturbance. It takes time to train this... and it aint easy T_T

心。梦

心若在 梦就在

Han Dynasty

The Han Dynasty during their rule wioll sometimes leane their enemy alive,
disfiguring a man in the most protean manner.
It was a message for all those who opposed their rule.
They understood the psychological effect would have on the masses,
that there was a price to pay for their action.

抉择

做错了抉择 并不是最糟糕的事
最糟糕的 是你做错了抉择之后 没有办法重新来过

心机 野心

心机重了点 野心大了点 没人会怪你
表面功夫做得不够体面而伤了大局 就是你的过失

wisdom

Wisdom is more important than knowledgeable.

Wisdom is being aware of how your act and words affect those near to you. Wisdom is recognizing whether you say or do something, it can come back to haunt you or to embrace you.

Wisdom is being able to see the trapping of life and becoming aware of how to avoid pitfalls along the way.

@forget@

If you can not forget someone, then stop trying.
To really forget doesn't need any effort.

New Year Gift

Ok, it' 12.37am and it's officially Chinese New Year now. So happy Chinese New YeaR to myself. I'm not going back... not this time... and now I wonder if it's a mistake. People supposed to be having steamboat with their family in the roudn table now. And I stuck here. By the way, I am leaving to Malacca tomorrow.

So I ask those little left over boy, my sister's friends who didn't back to their hometown to have a simple dinner. Atleast a simple gathering will do.

And I received an email from work and travel, the y offer new program. And it's the 1st in 5 years. It is a 6 months to 1 year intern in US. Wish I could get it. This will be the BEST New Year present for me.