舞女

Da ban dio yao kiao mo yiu | Bue lang ke yio lai yio ki

Ang ang e ni hong di-eng siam siam xi xi | Ying gua sim siong bi

Reff:

A… sia lang e dang liao gai | Cue bu lu e pi ai

Am am lao dio bak sai | Ya si kik ka chio hai hai

A… lai lai lai lai tiao bu | Ka po na xi ding dang

Em guan di xi sia lang | Ka yi dang cue bin bang

Gua khua dio ding dang e ka po | Pua yim ka se lai se ki

Lang ke ya dui gun kong ka | Luan luan hun hun | Kiu gun sim yiu bun

Reff:

A… gam guan bo lang cai yia  | Cue bu lu e pi ai

Ci wu lau tio bak sai | Ya si kik ka chio hai hai

A… lai lai lai lai tiao bu | Ka po na si ting tang

Em guan di si sia lang | Ka yi dong cue bin bang

我的浪漫

你问我，什么是浪漫？
不要玫瑰， 无需戒指。
只想在

[总统府。。。跳支舞！]

Unexpected Call

After so many sleepless nights, physically feel very "down" already. Then while Im rushing to print out report, saw a missed call from unknown number. Almost ignore it. But somehow, called back! I asked in the tone as whole world owes me $$$

"WHO IS DIS?" 
Hallo, is this Steffi?
I answered impatiently "YES, WHO IS DIS?!"
Dis is Lion Michael.
(OPS!! SHY dao.... WOMAN, WHY U so rude to elder arr =.='')

He is the president of Lions Club KL Seputeh, seems older than my dad. His club happened to be sponsoring Lion for Leo club in my university. In my term, I was de one who communicate with him for meeting or invite him whenever there is event being held around uni. It has been 2 years since the last time I saw him during an event and today, he called to check if I have completed my study. Aftr learned my current situation, he wished me all de best and let me call him once I graduate.

Honestly, aftr I detach from events, clubs, activities for de past 2 years, sometimes I will stil go tru old pictures, memorising what I have done. Sometimes, I will still miss those moments. Then I will start to feel what a useless, lifeless bitch I am now! But life must GO ON! However, you'll feel warmed and touched to know that someone frm de past stil remember you and check on you.

Long time ago, I used to tell a group of volunteer when giving briefing before we tutoring de kids in orphanage "One day, those children might forget your name. They might forget things you taught them. But they will never forget the feeling you gave them... The feeling that someone still care for them, that you are not give up on them"

What I didn't know for myself is, ELDERS develop this kind of feeling too. Even you never say it, they knew it when you respect them! And they will remember! Lesson learned today, no matter how tired, how down u are, de moment you pick up a call. Happy and polite mode MUST ON!!! Cos u never know what is coming to you!! Still... today sia sue daooooo =_=''

独立

是你 教会我独立


是你 生说独立的女人最漂亮

结果 我独立了

你却走了

很远，很远

你坚信： “爱她，就要让她独立”

但是，你可知道， 当一个女人，活生生的被你逼得独立，坚强时

她独立以后， 便不需要你了！

她会离开， 飞到很远很远的地方

去寻找一个在她疲惫，彷徨，受委屈时， 

可以让她避避风， 靠下来休息，而不埋怨她是个包袱的港湾

我的心声， 你听见了吗？

她

她 要的不多

只希望有个人

带她去跳舞

陪她看欧洲电影

欣赏爵士音乐

品尝各国名酒

走遍美术馆

聆听大提琴演奏

就这么简单的要求

却似乎 遥不可及

冲动

这个时候 想用理智来控制言行是不切实际的事。但是至少 不要冲动！

OUTSIDE THE BOX

Awesome Answers In IAS Examination

Q. How can you drop a raw egg onto a concrete floor without cracking it?
A. Concrete floors are very hard to crack! (UPSC Topper)

Q. If it took eight men ten hours to build a wall, how long would it take four men to build it?
A. No time at all it is already built. (UPSC 23rd Rank Opted for IFS)

Q. If you had three apples and four oranges in one hand and four apples and three oranges in the other hand, what would you have?
A. Very large hands. (Good one) (UPSC 11 Rank Opted for IPS)

Q. How can you lift an elephant with one hand?
A. you will never find an elephant with one hand. (UPSC Rank 14 Opted for IES)

Q. How can a man go eight days without sleep?
A. No Probs, He sleeps at night. (UPSC IAS Rank 98)

Q. If you throw a red stone into the blue sea what it will become?
A. It will Wet or Sink as simple as that. (UPSC IAS Rank 2)


Q. What looks like half apple ?
A: The other half. (UPSC - IAS Topper )

Q. What can you never eat for breakfast?
A: Dinner.

Q. Bay of Bengal is in which state?
A: Liquid (UPSC 33 Rank)

Interviewer said "I shall either ask you ten easy questions or one really difficult question. Think well before you make up your mind!" The boy thought for a while and said, "my choice is one really difficult question." "Well, good luck to you, you have made your own choice! Now tell me this.
"What comes first, Day or Night?"
The boy was jolted into reality as his admission depends on the correctness of his answer, but he thought for a while and said, "It's the DAY sir!"
"How" the interviewer asked.
"Sorry sir, you promised me that you will not ask me a SECOND difficult question!"
He was selected for IIM!

Technical Skill is the mastery of complexity, while Creativity is the master of presence of mind.
This is a famous paper written for an Oxford philosophy exam, normally requiring an eight page essay answer and expected to be backed up with source material, quotes and analytical reasoning. This guy wrote the below answer and topped the exam!

OXFORD EXAMINATION BOARD 1987, ESSAY QUESTION
Question: What is courage? (50 Marks)


Answer (After 7 blank pages, at the end of the last page…): This is courage...

凸

People say "If you are furious, don't talk. Count your fingers to 10. By then, u alrd calm, then talk." So whenever I get mad, I don't talk. I just don't understand why I always start counting from the middle one... and it always stops there! Fail eh? Eat dat  (-_-)凸

I've got nothing

If I were asked; what do I have with me. Honestly, I can tell you; I have NOTHING... except for people I know and stories that carried behind their every single smile; every single tear. You can never know how deep and amazing life one has gone through, and these are my greatest asset that open my mind and enrich my life! No I don't like fairy tale... but yes, I do love real life stories. Appreciate every moment of chilling around and exposed to stories from people at their different stage of life :D

Need... Want...

Be a woman who want him but doesn't need him

有一种女人， 嫁给谁 都会幸福

張愛玲著：

1.就算眼前的這個男人，千般好，萬般好，處處是優點，他不愛你，這個缺點，你永遠改變不了 。

2.分手時，當著面，別哭，背地裏，往死裏哭。

3.一個人最大的缺點，不是自私、野蠻、任性，而是偏執的愛著一個不愛自己的人 。

4.不管你的條件有多差，總會有個人在愛你。不管你的條件有多好，也總有個人不愛你 。

5.打扮的再美，穿的再昂貴，那只是個幌子，用善良做的外衣才是真的美。

6.能開口說出的委屈，便不是委屈。能離開的人，便不算是愛人。

7.人永遠是寂寞而自我的生物。無論多麼真誠的說出自己的愛，也總會有無法被理解的心情。

8.不卑不亢，從容優雅，面對一切。

9.一個人，如果沒空，那是因為他不想有空；一個人，如果走不開，那是因為不想走開；一個人，對你藉口太多，那是因為不想在乎。

10.有的事情，沒法說明。你覺得值，就值，你覺得不值，別人說值，你也覺得不值。

11.要明白一個道理，男人可是輕易的喜歡一個人，但不會輕易的愛上一個人。

12.在風平浪靜的日子裏，留點空間給自己，留點空間給對方，留點美好給距離 。

13.有時候，學會把失望當做一種收穫，因為有期望，才會有失望。

14.不要妄想試圖改變誰，因為誰也改變不了誰，只有，他願不願意為你改變。

15.時間，可以瞭解愛情，可以證明愛情，也可以推翻愛情。

16.自由可貴 ， 但是，每天數以萬計的人，在用自由換取愛情。

17.你可以虛榮，因為，那是女人的天性，但，不要讓自己變成為別人增加虛榮的工具。

18.不要說，這世上沒個好男人了，不要去記恨那個拋棄你的人，畢竟曾經愛過你、疼過你，寬容會讓你更美麗。

19.不要去好奇，不要去關心，他的現任女友長得如何？身材如何？你這樣只是自尋煩惱罷了。

20.不要在你哭泣的時候，說氣話，下決定，你會後悔的。

21.他說，我累了，讓我冷靜一段時間，好嗎？你就說好，因為，他是來通知你的，不是來取得你同意的。

22.女孩子要自愛，不管你遇到多大的打擊，不管你遇到的情況多麼悲涼，藉故墮落，也是墮落；越是不愛自己，越是沒人愛你。

23.小心眼、嫉妒心、 仇恨、 報復，女人的伎倆不過如此，你要施展沒關係，關係的是你別被人發現。

24.做個優雅大方的女子

25.獨立，永遠。不管，感情還是金錢。

26.不要想盡辦法的向很多人炫耀，你有很多男朋友。因為，別人不僅不會羡慕你，只會看輕你。

27.不要整天問，你愛我嗎？當你問的時候，他就不愛你了。

28.20歲以下，你相信偶像劇，那就算了。20歲以上，你還相信偶像劇，那就完了。

29.要知道，一個男人好與壞，不是看他花心還是專一，自古男人都花心，而是要看，有沒有控制力。

30.勇敢的女人，永遠比懦弱的女人美麗。如果，你的愛人不愛你，我勸你還是勇敢點分離，好過，懦弱的糾纏。

31.善於妥協的女人，很寶貴。但是，只善於妥協的女人，很廉價。

32.不要做女強人，要做強女人。

与自己的对话

若要嫁, 真 [想] 嫁个像他这样一个男人
他是个理想伴侣；是那种你穿着晚礼服去任何一个大场合，遇到熟人时
可以扶着他手臂。 大方的向朋友介绍“好久不见， 这位是我先生” 的那种人！

但现实生活中 我应该会委屈自己跟着一个自己或许不怎么爱但可以爱你超越爱自己的男人吧！
这算 是理智还是固执？

当你遇到一个在你心里的分量高高在上，一个让你无法自拔的去 尊敬他 欣赏他 爱他 崇拜他的男人时，你只有两条路可走：

1。跟随他 学习他 让自己提升到他的水平， 让他欣赏你 然后 征服他，改变他。 那他在你心中的价值， 便可以不再那么尊贵。 那他中伤你的机率，对你造成的影响， 就不再那么大了！

2。没办法改变他，那就 远离他！

因为你自己清楚这样一直陷下去， 自己不会有什么好下场
你会义无反顾的付出，妥协，容忍，与 顺从。。。
你会为了成全他而努力成为他心目中最完美的那个人。
你将失去自我，因为觉得凡是他说的，总是对的。
而这一切， 只会让条件本来不差的你 显越来越渺小，越来越卑微。

你得不到他的尊敬，并失去最原始的尊严
活到人生的某阶段，碰到这样一个男人，却还不掉头跑 。。。
那你，也未免太可悲了吧！

做人的底线

不做第三者 即使再喜欢
骗我可以 被我发现 永远在我面前消失
不拿我当一回事 我会同样方式对你
我可以装傻 别当我真傻
我可以忍 但别超过我的底线
我不是没脾气 只是不轻易发脾气