We had a gathering with my "sisters tonite". They are my close friends. Unfortunately, this gathering is not as usual. This is more to a private meeting... maybe girls talk. There are 6 of... mostly from diffrenent states, different backround and different characteristic.
Now what? One of my close friend being hit by her boyfriend who already stay together for years??? Basically, i still assume myself as a patient type of person. Whenever i still can get along with a thing, i will try my best to control my emotion (even lot of people don't think so... i don't know why)
I love to have people around me, i like to talk, to share, to play and i love crowd, especially when people around me are my close friends. But the thing is, personal space is very important to me either. That's also 1 of the reason why i move out, i feel that i have something of my own.
Back to My friend'S case, she have problem with the acomodation if she really decided to break up with her boyfriend. 3 other girls stay hostel where the security is soo strict. You can only be allowed to enter by if you are the resident. Another girl stay too far, and honestly, she is closer to me than to that girl. Actually she already asked if she can stay with me 2 days before.
It's not the thing as normal couple fight. There is no such thing that you cab tolerate a man for performing physical violance to his girl friend. My close friend has been slapped and hit by key board. KEY BOARD!!! WTH???
But i think it is a childish behaviour to go in group to her house and accused or judge her boy friend. It's not fair since we, as outsider, especially her close friend, will have bias perception since we only hear from one side. Maybe there are still so many inner process they have go through that we don't understand and for that, we have every right to stay neutral.
All of us encourage her to break up. The problem is on her. She can't live without him. She is too depend on him. And it seems like he understand that and not bother to her feeling, not respect her, maybe just keep her at home as maid.
What's more serious problem as i understand is that guy has too many girls around him. He have ONLY 2 guy friends (the rest are girls) that cause insecure to my friends. But what to do? This is also the main reason why they keep fall into arguement.
If things get worst, we all will help her to move the stuff, and i might temporary have a room mate again
