people are free to speak out whatever they think
That's why you heard alot
I heard that "used to have it but lost it is more painful than never have it"
I don't totally agree with this; even though there is some fact in that. my power word for my statement is "AT LEAST"
Yea, may be at the end of story i lost it, but "at least i used to have it" and because i used to have it, i know what that is, i know how that feel, i know when to let go.
Most important, i will know to appreciate when i meet the better one in the future
I will also know to kick that out when i meet the worse. At least now you can measure
After all life is all about learning from experience right?
How can you be stong before you get hurt, before you felt down?
What can you tell to your grand children if the whole story of your life is like a straight line, over and over again... well protected?