Yesterday when i walkin out to the balcony, i heard my hosue mate video camimg with her boy friend who study in UK now. I heard she asked "where got boy friend like this one? count about money to his own girl friend?" Then i heard a guy's voice "sure... this is because youyourselves want to buy that thing... not because i want to buy for you"
INTERESTING.
So you only will pay for it if you choose the thing which you like to give to ur girl friend...
When she choose the things she like, she need to pay her self.
Why don't make it simpler. You keep the money you use to buy her present to buy something she really like. win win solution ^.~