I admit that I have no right to judge people. But since this is my diary, I would like to share something with my self. Share my opinions, share my values and share my perceptions. I can share whatever I want without pro and contra. In this way, I can naturally express everything I feel so that one day, when I grew older, when I’m lonely, I can flash back what have I done and the way I’m thinking when I was young… Maybe that time I will laugh at myself for what I used to think and do. How innocence I am in that age.
Today I would like to share about my 1st impression. I will evaluate people that I just get known, but usually not everyone that I mix with. I will only evaluate certain people who give me special feeling… because I care. I never tell people (or maybe I never realize about this because it just happen naturally)
For me, 1st impression is very important because it will affect so much on how people tr
eat you or see you. In my opinion, a sincere eye contact is the key point, than your gesture, your attitude, your manners, your tone, and your hand grip. Every time I shake hand with some one I just know, I will observe their hand grip. Their hand grip will effect my perception toward that certain people. For me, people who can do BIG THING will have a firm hand grip. I like the type of hand which is warm, a bit tough on the surface, and large enough to cover my hand. I love that feeling because it symbolize that I can trust them. They give me safety feeling and show some body language that “we will become a good friend.”
I also expect people to look into my eyes when they talk to me as well as when they listen to me. Never look down to this simple interaction because it shows respect, it’s a part of manners. As I expect this thing from others, I must do the same thing 1st. Because I respect them, so I will look into their eyes whenever having conversation with them. But somehow there is much misinterpretation and misunderstanding because of my “eye contact”, make me wonder whether there is something wrong with my principle. I admit sometimes I will think out some weird things ^^ But who cares… be happy…
Today I would like to share about my 1st impression. I will evaluate people that I just get known, but usually not everyone that I mix with. I will only evaluate certain people who give me special feeling… because I care. I never tell people (or maybe I never realize about this because it just happen naturally)
For me, 1st impression is very important because it will affect so much on how people tr
eat you or see you. In my opinion, a sincere eye contact is the key point, than your gesture, your attitude, your manners, your tone, and your hand grip. Every time I shake hand with some one I just know, I will observe their hand grip. Their hand grip will effect my perception toward that certain people. For me, people who can do BIG THING will have a firm hand grip. I like the type of hand which is warm, a bit tough on the surface, and large enough to cover my hand. I love that feeling because it symbolize that I can trust them. They give me safety feeling and show some body language that “we will become a good friend.”I also expect people to look into my eyes when they talk to me as well as when they listen to me. Never look down to this simple interaction because it shows respect, it’s a part of manners. As I expect this thing from others, I must do the same thing 1st. Because I respect them, so I will look into their eyes whenever having conversation with them. But somehow there is much misinterpretation and misunderstanding because of my “eye contact”, make me wonder whether there is something wrong with my principle. I admit sometimes I will think out some weird things ^^ But who cares… be happy…
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