Once you decide, Don't Regret

A girl friend told me; she dumped her current boy friend who has been together for almost 2 years, the problem is not on him. He loves her very much. The thing is she crush with another guy. Do i angry with her? not really... i even feel that she is a valiant girl. And what shocked me is dare to make the decision to break up with her boy friend whom dote her very much without knowing whether the guy she crush with, has the same feeling to her. There is not much girl dare to make that kind of decision and take the risk... follow their heart. I can said, "even i am not fully support her decision, i sallute her."

I used to see many girls, they will still get along with someone who she don't even have feeling with them at all... They did so just to have fun, just to have ATM, have a driver, and most of the time, just because they are lonely. They will even date more than 1 guys(of course they do it behind the stage.)

The guy she crush now is a playboy and hot temper. She felt tired in this kind of unclear relationship. She asked me whether she is stupid...
To let go a man who love you very much for a man who you love very much... is it a mistake?

Yes, you dump a guy who love you very much... but you don;t love him. So, why should you regret? If you do not love him no matter how good is he requirement, how nice he is to you, there will still no point. Why should you feel regret to a thing you are not expect? Since you dump him on your free will, you have no right to REGRET. He used to be so kind to you, he's actually yours... But since you dump him, so never ever feel regret.

There are many things that can be retrieved such as your weight, your emotion, and your perception. But there are also many things which we unable to retrieve such as youth, your dream, and your feeling toward a person.

You used to love him, but that feeling is gone, no matter how hard you try, there is no point to find it back. To let go a guy who love you very much won't be suffer. To let go a guy who you love very much is a suffer. To love a guy who does not love you will be the same suffer.

Maybe because we are too young... When we get older, we won't make such a stupid decision as this "to dump a guy who love you very much for a guy who you love very much" ^^