Recently, I’ve read an article. A 15 years old girl send an email to the writer, told her that she has a boy friend who in same age with her. Both of theirs parents disagree with theirs relationship. They think that they are too young. The girl’s father tells the boy “if you really love her, you will be able to wait for her until she is 21.” Although it is not a short period, anything can be happen during these 6 years, the boy promised to wait. The girl forbids him from promise. She doesn’t believe in promises, because she afraid after make the promise, he will regret. But the boy persists… and the girl was touched.
The story is not end yet. The girl told the writer that 2 months after he made the promise, he falls in love with another girl. He even refused when the girl asked to meet him. The girl couldn’t understand why a boy can change that fast. She doesn’t believe in promise, he makes her believed. Now after she believes, he breaks it.
I would like to tell the girl, “What are you expecting from him? She was just 15. Even men in 50 will still make the same mistake… and hilariously, women in 50 will still believe in these kinds of promise and please be reminded, I am not try to persuade you to be a pessimistic person, I still believe in love, believe in promise, I do believe in miracle and I believe in every wonderful thing.
The thing is we love somebody with no reason. I love you because I love you. When don’t love somebody anymore. It supposes to have no reason too. So don’t ask me why you not love me anymore.
That’s why every time I start a relationship, I will tell my boy friend “if one day you find a girl who better than me and you crush with her, just go ahead. But do remember to tell me.” I can accept to be betrayed but not cheated. If there is something wrong with the feeling, just be honest and break up so that we can find better person for ourselves. Don’t wasting my time and my youth when you don’t love me anymore.
I though after saying these things, my boy friend will be less stressed out. I thought they will feel that I am a most understanding girl friend in the world. But some how it made them feel unsafe. The told me “how come you make
me feel that you will run away if you meet a guy who better than me?”
Yes, I will absolutely leave you if I meet guy who better than you. That’s why I am not prohibited you to do the same thing. Wish for your understanding. I’m still young. I am only 20. What are you expecting from me? If I am in age 25-28 when already in marry period but still do the same thing, no offense, I will accept when you said that I am a bad girl or what. But I am only 20 now. How many 20 do I have to bet with my destiny? My youth is my capital and I will bet to get better man. So sincerely, I am only 20 what are you expecting from me???
The story is not end yet. The girl told the writer that 2 months after he made the promise, he falls in love with another girl. He even refused when the girl asked to meet him. The girl couldn’t understand why a boy can change that fast. She doesn’t believe in promise, he makes her believed. Now after she believes, he breaks it.
I would like to tell the girl, “What are you expecting from him? She was just 15. Even men in 50 will still make the same mistake… and hilariously, women in 50 will still believe in these kinds of promise and please be reminded, I am not try to persuade you to be a pessimistic person, I still believe in love, believe in promise, I do believe in miracle and I believe in every wonderful thing.
The thing is we love somebody with no reason. I love you because I love you. When don’t love somebody anymore. It supposes to have no reason too. So don’t ask me why you not love me anymore.
That’s why every time I start a relationship, I will tell my boy friend “if one day you find a girl who better than me and you crush with her, just go ahead. But do remember to tell me.” I can accept to be betrayed but not cheated. If there is something wrong with the feeling, just be honest and break up so that we can find better person for ourselves. Don’t wasting my time and my youth when you don’t love me anymore.
I though after saying these things, my boy friend will be less stressed out. I thought they will feel that I am a most understanding girl friend in the world. But some how it made them feel unsafe. The told me “how come you make
me feel that you will run away if you meet a guy who better than me?”Yes, I will absolutely leave you if I meet guy who better than you. That’s why I am not prohibited you to do the same thing. Wish for your understanding. I’m still young. I am only 20. What are you expecting from me? If I am in age 25-28 when already in marry period but still do the same thing, no offense, I will accept when you said that I am a bad girl or what. But I am only 20 now. How many 20 do I have to bet with my destiny? My youth is my capital and I will bet to get better man. So sincerely, I am only 20 what are you expecting from me???
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