I found that excluding love, time can make us forget many thing else. It can make us forget our friend, our principle, even our dream.
You used to be greatest friends with this group of friends in secondary school. You promise to keep in touch no matter which way will you take in the future. You already promise to sms in y
You used to be greatest friends with this group of friends in secondary school. You promise to keep in touch no matter which way will you take in the future. You already promise to sms in y
our free time or msn whenever they online… and you really do that at 1st few months, then lesser and lesser until one day you suddenly realize that some how, it’s already 2 years since you called them last time.
Are you changing? Or them? No, both of you are not change. The only things that change is your environment, people you are mix with currently, activities that you join currently. You face different people and different things everyday. Your perceptions toward something have changed. Slowly but steadily, you will find it’s harder to get into conversation… it’s even harder to reach common understanding. And, who cares to find out the problem and solve it? Your works are waiting for you to be solved. You don’t have enough time to rest. By this way, in your 200++ contacts in your msn, only 50 of them are your active contacts. Sometimes, you don’t even have any ideas who are the rest 150 contact. Time… pathetic.
I said time will make you forget about your principle. When you were a 12 years old girl, you r principle is not to lie even one word. You are taught to be a honest girl since you are a child. Time pass by, you have no idea how people will survive if they are too honest. You get used to tell lie… to protect yourself, and you think that is nothing wrong with that, as long as you are not harm others.
When you are young, you can’t manage to put down your pride and ego. You think ”no matter how terrible I am, I have my dignity, it’s won’t become a reason I let myself being look down by other people.” So when your superior scolded you, you can get angry and resign. That’s your principle. But as you grow older, you start to learn to be obedient. It can work that way. You can’t keep apply and resign for job. It won’t brings any benefit to you. Time makes you forgot your pride and be flexible… in order to earn money to survive.
You are a very direct person. You are too honest until you will straight away shoot a person whenever you see the person do some thing wrong, no matter who is he. After you enter the society, face many troubles because if your “principle”, you realize being a direct person is not always a good thing. You learn how to say “2 kind of words” or being “flexible”
Not only this, time also makes you forget your dream. A young girl used to wish to be a professional ballet dancer. But as she is marry and has 2 children, time makes her find excuses to stop dancing. Now, in her age of
50, she is not able to dance anymore. He used to dream to be a successful business man. Few years later, when economy turns down and money are so hard to earn, he forgot his dream and only busy to work and thinking whether money that he earns every day, able to cover all the expenditure.
Times make us forget about our friends, principles, and dreams. What we can’t manage to forget is, we’ll remember that we used to have that particular friends, principles, and dreams.
Are you changing? Or them? No, both of you are not change. The only things that change is your environment, people you are mix with currently, activities that you join currently. You face different people and different things everyday. Your perceptions toward something have changed. Slowly but steadily, you will find it’s harder to get into conversation… it’s even harder to reach common understanding. And, who cares to find out the problem and solve it? Your works are waiting for you to be solved. You don’t have enough time to rest. By this way, in your 200++ contacts in your msn, only 50 of them are your active contacts. Sometimes, you don’t even have any ideas who are the rest 150 contact. Time… pathetic.
I said time will make you forget about your principle. When you were a 12 years old girl, you r principle is not to lie even one word. You are taught to be a honest girl since you are a child. Time pass by, you have no idea how people will survive if they are too honest. You get used to tell lie… to protect yourself, and you think that is nothing wrong with that, as long as you are not harm others.
When you are young, you can’t manage to put down your pride and ego. You think ”no matter how terrible I am, I have my dignity, it’s won’t become a reason I let myself being look down by other people.” So when your superior scolded you, you can get angry and resign. That’s your principle. But as you grow older, you start to learn to be obedient. It can work that way. You can’t keep apply and resign for job. It won’t brings any benefit to you. Time makes you forgot your pride and be flexible… in order to earn money to survive.
You are a very direct person. You are too honest until you will straight away shoot a person whenever you see the person do some thing wrong, no matter who is he. After you enter the society, face many troubles because if your “principle”, you realize being a direct person is not always a good thing. You learn how to say “2 kind of words” or being “flexible”
Not only this, time also makes you forget your dream. A young girl used to wish to be a professional ballet dancer. But as she is marry and has 2 children, time makes her find excuses to stop dancing. Now, in her age of
50, she is not able to dance anymore. He used to dream to be a successful business man. Few years later, when economy turns down and money are so hard to earn, he forgot his dream and only busy to work and thinking whether money that he earns every day, able to cover all the expenditure.Times make us forget about our friends, principles, and dreams. What we can’t manage to forget is, we’ll remember that we used to have that particular friends, principles, and dreams.
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