I’m not type of girl who likes to take risk. You can know it through my previous blog “man who loves me and man who I love” I would rather choose to marry a man who I don’t love that much but he loves me so much than marry a man who I love so much but doesn’t love me as much as I love him, all because I don’t want to take the risk. Risk not to be loved.
Maybe, the only and the biggest risk that I take or at least, I know that I’m going to take is “wish” to marry a CEO cum politician.
Because of this thing, I’ve to face many pro and contra. Is that wrong with that?
Many people share their dreams and hopes with people around them, or is there anything wrong with my “wish”? Come on, don’t tell me I’m the only girl who thinks like this…
Why people tend to think negatively about this? Do they know what my reason? I would like to tell them it’s totally not as what they thing. It’s not that simple. I have my own reason of course.
Go and ask girls nowadays… How many of the clever girls want to marry a CEO or politician??? Come on… I guess they prefer to be their lover. Girl friend is just enough. Only stupid girl as me is kind enough to take the risk. Remember, his job is itself is a risk. Marry him means you marry RISK and it will stick to you for the rest of your life.
It will be different if you only become the lover or girl friends… like many girls or even actress do nowadays (perhaps since long time ago???) They don’t mind to be lovers of politician or business man even they know that they are other people’s husband and dad. Those only make them feel they are worth to get his money, they will use this as their weapon “since, you can’t give me status, buy me house (car) then” or even know for the man reputation is very important, they will still ask the men “when will you marr
y me? When will you divorce with your wife?” (Of course they know it’s almost impossible) But these women clever until try to create sense of guiltiness to their men and make them feel they owe them so much and at the end… money spent to these women are larger than money that spend to his own wife.
Can’t totally blame them, they also take risk; they give up their time & youth. It can’t just waste for nothing. They have to think fir themselves. Today, she falls in love with a man who is other people’s husband. He can dump her anytime. At the end, he may back o his family, when he die, all of his asset might be pass to his wife or children. Won’t they worry? Maybe they are really the one whom the men love most. But it can’t guarantee their future. By asking the men to buy them house or car in advance, it’s actually buying an insurance which become asset that they can rely after they old (in case nobody wants them because of their past).
How bout the wife? She is the one who takes care of the house days and nights. She is the one who educate the children (when the children complaining because can’t see their daddy’s for a long time, she plays a very important role and persuade the children that their daddy’s is actually love them very much, he is working outside and unable to get back that soon), she also the one who often face the man’s family & relatives who might be expect so high (everything can be wrong in their eye), taking care of his reputation. She get nothing (in term of money) since after married, it’s a common sense that “my money is yours”. So what she try to do is save money (save her husband money = save her own money, she guess? cut cost, cut cost and cut cost. All the money she saves money not for her benefit but for her children, I mean their children. Children’s education fees, tuition’s fees, insurance, ect…
She didn’t say a word about this. This is her responsibility. This is what she supposes to do. The thing is she also needs to face so so so many unnecessary things. If ordinary housewives only have 30% chance to meet it. Her possibility is 99%. Phone terror from bitch or is that more polite if I say prostitute who jealous, coerce that say that her husband corruption, fear that her son being kidnapped, most of the time being left at home alone with all those stressful things (main factor women become depression or desperate), Worry husband being seduced by younger wild kittens, fear that women that in disorder women will cheat all her husband properties and ran away & being curse by black magic send by jealous parties.
Ok, now you know how great the woman who resolve to marry a CEO or politician. Now who wants to attack me? No offence.
(After I typed all this things, I was feeling SICK of this and began to reconsider my decision…) WHAT A FUCKING RISK???
Maybe, the only and the biggest risk that I take or at least, I know that I’m going to take is “wish” to marry a CEO cum politician.
Because of this thing, I’ve to face many pro and contra. Is that wrong with that?
Many people share their dreams and hopes with people around them, or is there anything wrong with my “wish”? Come on, don’t tell me I’m the only girl who thinks like this…
Why people tend to think negatively about this? Do they know what my reason? I would like to tell them it’s totally not as what they thing. It’s not that simple. I have my own reason of course.
Go and ask girls nowadays… How many of the clever girls want to marry a CEO or politician??? Come on… I guess they prefer to be their lover. Girl friend is just enough. Only stupid girl as me is kind enough to take the risk. Remember, his job is itself is a risk. Marry him means you marry RISK and it will stick to you for the rest of your life.
It will be different if you only become the lover or girl friends… like many girls or even actress do nowadays (perhaps since long time ago???) They don’t mind to be lovers of politician or business man even they know that they are other people’s husband and dad. Those only make them feel they are worth to get his money, they will use this as their weapon “since, you can’t give me status, buy me house (car) then” or even know for the man reputation is very important, they will still ask the men “when will you marr
y me? When will you divorce with your wife?” (Of course they know it’s almost impossible) But these women clever until try to create sense of guiltiness to their men and make them feel they owe them so much and at the end… money spent to these women are larger than money that spend to his own wife.Can’t totally blame them, they also take risk; they give up their time & youth. It can’t just waste for nothing. They have to think fir themselves. Today, she falls in love with a man who is other people’s husband. He can dump her anytime. At the end, he may back o his family, when he die, all of his asset might be pass to his wife or children. Won’t they worry? Maybe they are really the one whom the men love most. But it can’t guarantee their future. By asking the men to buy them house or car in advance, it’s actually buying an insurance which become asset that they can rely after they old (in case nobody wants them because of their past).
How bout the wife? She is the one who takes care of the house days and nights. She is the one who educate the children (when the children complaining because can’t see their daddy’s for a long time, she plays a very important role and persuade the children that their daddy’s is actually love them very much, he is working outside and unable to get back that soon), she also the one who often face the man’s family & relatives who might be expect so high (everything can be wrong in their eye), taking care of his reputation. She get nothing (in term of money) since after married, it’s a common sense that “my money is yours”. So what she try to do is save money (save her husband money = save her own money, she guess? cut cost, cut cost and cut cost. All the money she saves money not for her benefit but for her children, I mean their children. Children’s education fees, tuition’s fees, insurance, ect…
She didn’t say a word about this. This is her responsibility. This is what she supposes to do. The thing is she also needs to face so so so many unnecessary things. If ordinary housewives only have 30% chance to meet it. Her possibility is 99%. Phone terror from bitch or is that more polite if I say prostitute who jealous, coerce that say that her husband corruption, fear that her son being kidnapped, most of the time being left at home alone with all those stressful things (main factor women become depression or desperate), Worry husband being seduced by younger wild kittens, fear that women that in disorder women will cheat all her husband properties and ran away & being curse by black magic send by jealous parties.
Ok, now you know how great the woman who resolve to marry a CEO or politician. Now who wants to attack me? No offence.
(After I typed all this things, I was feeling SICK of this and began to reconsider my decision…) WHAT A FUCKING RISK???
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